2019 volunteering blog- Meeting the princessOvercoming barriers, Romania, Trip Report, Volunteer experience, Volunteering
Having just completed my Psychology degree, I was feeling rather mentally drained and, if I’m honest, hadn’t had much time to think about coming out to Romania. It seemed like a lifetime ago I’d had my interview and travelled to Warrington for the training day. When I arrived in Romania this lost and disorganised feeling still lingered, however, within a couple of days I can honestly say I settled so well into our new routine, the apartment and Slatina. I knew very quickly that the next two weeks would involve me falling in love with Romania, the work The Life Foundation do and many of the wonderful personalities I encountered along this beautiful journey.
The first child I was introduced to was a beautiful princess with hydrocephalus. When she was first placed her in my arms, nerves began to bubble as I held such a fragile and precious child. We visited this home every morning and throughout the two weeks I grew confident with supporting her needs and realised there was no need to be nervous. Once I’d overcome this, I was able to learn what she liked and disliked. Although she is not very able, she is definitely very bossy and will soon tell you when she’s getting fed up. Equally, when she finds something she enjoys, such as the foil blanket or your ponytail, you just can’t help but giggle along with her!
The other days were spent at the adult institution. These days will stay etched on my heart forever. At the end of each day my cheeks hurt from smiling and laughing so much. They all have massive personalities and are so full of love and enthusiasm. I loved being able to get them out of the institution for the day and into the forest for a BBQ. Being able to connect with nature, picking mushrooms and berries and making flower crowns was so refreshing for both the adults, carers and volunteers. We did lots of dancing and eating and it was lovely to see everyone so involved.
The two weeks went by so fast and I didn’t want to leave. I can’t believe how much I learnt and developed during this time. It’s an experience that has changed the way I think and act and I honestly cannot wait to return and continue being involved in the amazing work the life foundation do.